The Seeker and the Mirror
Published on January 15, 2025
There was once a seeker who traveled far and wide in search of truth. For years, he visited ashrams, studied scriptures, and sat with many teachers. Yet something always felt incomplete, as if the answer remained just out of reach.
One day, exhausted from his journey, he came upon a small hut in the mountains. Inside sat an old sage, who simply smiled and gestured for him to sit.
“Master,” the seeker said, “I have searched everywhere for the truth. I have read all the books, practiced all the meditations, yet I still feel separate from what I seek. Can you help me?”
The sage reached into a small wooden box and pulled out a mirror. He held it up before the seeker’s face.
“Look,” he said gently.
The seeker looked into the mirror and saw his own reflection—weary, searching, full of questions.
“I see myself,” the seeker replied, confused.
“Who is it that sees?” asked the sage.
The seeker paused. “I… I am the one who sees.”
“And who is this ‘I’ that sees?” the sage continued, his eyes twinkling.
The seeker was silent. He had never questioned this before. He had always assumed there was a “him” who was separate from what he sought—a seeker seeking something else, somewhere else.
“Look again,” the sage said, still holding the mirror. “The reflection appears in the mirror, but where does the mirror itself appear? The reflection is seen, but what is it that sees?”
In that moment, something shifted. The seeker realized that all his searching had been based on a fundamental assumption: that there was a separate “him” who needed to find something “out there.” But the very awareness that was looking, that was asking the question, that was aware of the seeking—this awareness itself was what he had been searching for all along.
The mirror reflected objects, but the mirror itself was not an object. Similarly, awareness reflects thoughts, feelings, and experiences, but awareness itself is not a thought, feeling, or experience. It is the ever-present, unchanging background in which all appearances arise.
The seeker laughed, not with joy or sadness, but with the simple recognition of what had always been true. He had been like a fish searching for water, not realizing it was already swimming in it.
“Thank you,” he said to the sage.
“There is nothing to thank,” the sage replied. “You have simply recognized what you have always been. The seeking was never necessary—only the recognition.”
The Nature of the Seeker
This story points to a fundamental truth in Advaita Vedanta: what you are seeking is what you already are. The sense of separation, of being a seeker who must find something, is itself the illusion that keeps the recognition at bay.
The “I” that we take ourselves to be—the person with a name, a history, a body, a mind—is not the true “I.” It is an appearance, a reflection in the mirror of awareness. The real “I” is the awareness itself, the unchanging witness that is present in all experiences.
When we investigate “Who am I?” with sincerity, we discover that:
- We are not the body (the body is an object of awareness)
- We are not the mind or thoughts (thoughts are objects of awareness)
- We are not the emotions (emotions are objects of awareness)
- We are not even the sense of being a separate individual (this too is an object of awareness)
What remains is pure awareness—the ever-present, unchanging “I” that is the source and substance of all that appears.
The End of Seeking
The recognition of our true nature doesn’t mean that life stops or that we become passive. Rather, it means that the seeking comes to an end, not because we have found something, but because we realize there was never anything to find. We were never separate from what we are.
The sage’s question—“Who is it that sees?”—is the essence of self-inquiry (Atma Vichara). By turning attention back upon itself, awareness recognizes its own nature. This is not an intellectual understanding but a direct recognition, like recognizing your own face in a mirror.
In this recognition, the seeker and the sought merge. There is only awareness, appearing as the seeker, the seeking, and the sought—but fundamentally, there is only one thing: awareness itself, playing all the roles.
The journey ends where it began: in the recognition that you are what you have always been, and what you have always been is what everything is.